How to Choose Your Kitten’s Gender
- Svetlana Jacobson
- Apr 9
- 1 min read
Updated: 37 minutes ago

Many families ask me the same question:
“Should we choose a boy or a girl?”
Here’s the simplest and the most effective method:
you need balance in the house.
Just count how much male and female energy you already have at home.
Example:
Mom, Dad, and two sons.
Male energy: three.
Female energy: one.
In a home like this, adding another boy would throw things even more off balance.
The right choice here is a girl — she’ll help soften and harmonize the whole household.
Right now, three males are already “vampiring” that one poor mom.
Trust me, families always tell me later:
“She brought so much calm, we didn’t even realize how much we needed her!”
🦁 The truth about kitten size
People often ask:
“Can you show me the parents so I’ll know how big the kitten will be?”
Honestly… that question doesn’t make much sense.
Kittens from my lines grow large — boys and girls — if you feed them well, give them proper care, fresh air, and keep their environment low-stress.
The idea that girls grow smaller is just a myth.
Girls raised in my cattery are every bit as big and impressive as the boys.
I give you a healthy, strong kitten with great potential.
After that — the rest is your responsibility (and your love, of course).